Showing posts with label self-control. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-control. Show all posts

Thursday, April 29, 2010

And I Was Gentle Today

Scripture: And I was gentle today, though anointed king. 2 Samuel 3:39

Observation: Abner, in a fit of passion, decides to abandon the house of Saul and give that kingdom to David. All because Saul's son disrespects him. Joab, in a fit of passion, kills Abner with a punch to the gut. All because Abner had murdered his brother.
David, in a restraint of passion, holds a national funeral for his enemy Abner, where he calls him a “prince” and a “great man.”
Two men let their passions get out of control. One man chooses compassion over passion, gentleness over his gut.

Application: I love the word passion. I think all people ought to be fired up and driven by passion in life. But my passions will either be my downfall, or they will be under my dominion. I will be undone by passion or chose to be gentle. Passion out of control can lose kingdoms and curse families, leaving legacies of pain. Passion in control and tempered by gentleness will win the day.

Prayer: God, may I go to bed tonight saying, “And I was gentle today.” May I have the passion of David, but the restraint of gentleness.

Monday, August 10, 2009

The Faithfulness Principle

Scripture:
(7)“How can I pardon you? Your children have forsaken me and have sworn by those who are no gods. When I fed them to the full, they committed adultery and trooped to the houses of whores.
(8) They were well-fed, lusty stallions, each neighing for his neighbor's wife. Jeremiah 5:7-8


Observation: Jeremiah describes two kinds of unfaithfulness—Spiritual unfaithfulness, as people leave their God to pursue other gods (7) and marital unfaithfulness, as men leave their wives to “neigh” for other wives (8). I think there is a connection: Infidelity in one area leads to infidelity in another.

Application: I have discovered that unfaithfulness in one area of my life inevitably leads to unfaithfulness in another area. To use another metaphor, when the walls of my life are broken down in one area, say my purity or my time with God, then the walls seems to crumble in other areas as well. It is a ripple effect. The good news is that when I seek God and rebuild walls in one area, get one area under control, then the other walls are easier to rebuild and maintain. So the simple act of repenting in one area, and beginning to be faithful in that area actually helps strengthen the other areas as well. For me, one of the easiest walls to ignore is this devotional time with God. When I neglect it, other areas of my life begin to crumble. When I maintain it, God shows me how to rebuild other walls. Jeremiah discovered this principle: Faithfulness breeds faithfulness and unfaithfulness breeds unfaithfulness.

Prayer: God, let me pay attention to the walls of my life. Help me continue to be faithful spiritually, so I do not breed unfaithfulness in my marriage, like the people of Jeremiah’s day did. Keep me passionately pursuing you. Thanks for your principle of faithfulness, and for your power to change me.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Ready for the Race July 15

Scripture: Therefore lift your drooping hands and strengthen your weak knees, and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be put out of joint but rather be healed. Hebrews 12:12-13

Observation: God’s people are running a race that requires endurance. As part of the race, they will endure the loving discipline of a Father who cares for them. This discipline would be painful in the moment, but would later yield the fruit of righteousness. In light of this coming painful race, we should lift our hands, strengthen our knees, make straight paths for our feet, so that we can walk without stumbling. What does that mean?

Application: We need to be in top shape to endure the grueling miles ahead. God is saying, “The race will be hard. Get in shape!” Jessica is training for a half-marathon. This race requires her to get in shape, to run a disciplined regime to prepare for that race. Same is true in my spiritual life. Knowing that I must run with endurance the race set before me (v. 1), I need to be in top spiritual shape. This requires faith-based discipline, not sheer willpower. Not only to strengthen my hands and knees, but to remove obstacles—habits, strongholds, sins—that will trip me up down the road. Looking to Jesus in faith, I see that he disciplined himself to do what was needed for the race, not always what he felt like doing.

Prayer: God, as I look at my life I see a struggle with self discipline. I am far too often governed by feelings and inclinations than self control and restraint. This will not prepare me for the rough race ahead. Doing this blog helps give me a degree of accountability to meet with you. But in other areas as well, I need to be guided by fixing my eyes on Jesus and the race before me, not the feelings of the moment. Give me strong hands and knees. Show me the rocks in the road I need to clear out, that I may run and grow strong in You. Amen.