To see my kids eating and drinking and being happy...

Scripture: Judah and Israel were as many as the sand by the sea. They ate and drank and were happy. 1 Kings 4:20

Observation: Under Solomon's leadership, the people were happy. They grew. They were able to tackle immense projects for the glory of God, like the building of the temple. They had safety from their enemies and prosperity. Nations from all around heard of their growing reputation and came to seek the wisdom of Solomon. Why was God's hand on them in such a powerful way?
A clue is found in something Solomon himself once observed. When the righteous increase, the people rejoice, but when the wicked rule, the people groan. Proverbs 29:2. The way Solomon lived his life impacted the way he led, which impacted the way the people lived. Another clue is found in the psalm of Solomon's father, David. In psalm 101, David outlines the kind of man and ruler he intends to be. I will ponder the way that is blameless...I will walk with integrity of heart within my house. (v.2). I believe it is clear that the blessings Judah and Israel experienced were related to Solomon's walking in wisdom and integrity. Later, we see the flip side of this, but for now, everyone is eating and drinking and happy.

Application: As a father, my "kingdom" is subject to these same things. As I go, my family will go. How I conduct my life and character and walk affects my family. I need to heed Psalm 101 as an aspiration for fatherhood. I think I will memorize that over the next few weeks, and aspire to a higher level of integrity in my parenting.

Prayer: God, I know my life is not a guarantee for my kids. But the odds are much better if I walk with you. Help me to me a father of integrity. Help me lead myself that I might lead others.